Today on Qualitative Speaking: Dont be a People Pleaser!

Too often our actions are dictated by a misguided need to please others. We care too much about what they think, with every step we take we look over our shoulder  to see whether they are smiling or frowning.
Understand this: if you are always looking for people's approval, you're not looking where you are going and eventually you will hit a wall or trip over your feet. What do you think will happen if you open your mouth and stand up for yourself??

The truth is that people who don't respect your rights and honor your wishes are not worth your time or effort. Nor are they worthy of a long drawn out discussion, just say good bye to them and keep moving forward.

Important to know is that you can not please everybody, because 10 people will have 10 different opinions and reasons for their opinions. Everybody is out for his or her own interest and will offer you advice or ideas that will be of benefit to him/her. It is now left to you to do things that you are comfortable with and you believe in.

Anybody that tries to please people all the time will eventually go crazy, just do the right things and forget about being a people pleaser and things will go on fine and smooth for you.



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